control your state of mind.

all your problems are temporary... but the ability to control your state of mind is permanent.
If you could do it ... then you could do anything in the Universe.


Keep Practicing

hard work( had it) + direction(now I have it) - give life to the thing you choose.

I am choosing to give my life to this dream of connecting 10 billion people on one network.... 

keep walking and do the best work you can.

It is not about intelligence ,it si not about IQ, it is not about some innate talent..... it is purely about hard work in the correct direction.

Since my childhood I had been a hard working person, but I lacked the knowledge to determine the right direction.

I have the knowledge now... then I should again use the same method I use to use in my  childhood.I use to select something and give my life completely to that one thing.

Now is the time to give my life to learning how to connect 10 billion people.... this seems a worthy goal.

Gandhi was not special.... he just practiced self control all his life which gave him better control over his actions.Period

Anyone can do it.


Keep Practicing self control. And you will achieve it.

I do not ask to do anything to anyone in my team that I would personally not do.

This is one of the most important lessons in the history of starting a business. People are deeply mimetic..

They do not go by what you say... there eyes are rightly on your action.

It is as it should be... don't ask anyone to do what you yourself will not do.
People learn from their environment.

You have to walk the path you have chosen and keep only those people around you who understand the path and are willing walking with you. Otherwise, It will be a painful journey.

If you choose to come with me then never in your life should you complain that the journey is difficult or the path is too long to walk. I am telling you before hand.... it will be both.

But in the battle field you will always see myself fighting alongside. I am never ever going to ask my team to do something that I would not personally do myself.

Remember it.

Keep Practicing.

Business is the war of love

Everything is fair in love and war - Business is both.

You have a dream, nobody believes in it.
You love your dream but you have to fight a war to make it a reality. The eternal satisfaction that one derives from seeing the change could hardly be matched by anything in the physical world.


Keep practicing

High output management - if you want to make change.... you need to set parameters that will allow to do that... otherwise you are bullshiting

Any measurement - fucking any measurement is better than having none.

Things are not perfect.. they will never be but the only way to be sure that you are heading in the direction where you want to go .... is to know and control some parameters.

Mathematics is the answer-

people have intuition... which is nothing more than us playing with probability without knowing the exact facts.

acquire knowledge and apply knowledge - then you become fearless....but remember to be true to yourself

acquire knowledge and apply knowledge - then you become fearless....but remember to be true to yourself


Elaborate..........

Incremental rate of return.....

This is a fundamental question that I use to ask myself.

I do not know how and when did I get this notion of asking for rate of return in from anything in life.

I do not go for the current value of anything, reason being... the current value is somehow a distortion of current information baggage.

The thing that is interesting and a little difficult, is to ask the meta level question.
The activity that we are about to embark on, does it have incremental rate of return or decremental (there is no such word... I want to use it... so fuck it) rate of return.

It is hard to tell whether an activity will lead to incremental rate of return or not. But Every now and then, I come across something that has incremental rate of return.

And I will do it, no matter how many people will be against it.
 I can simply not explain the fundamental reason for doing it. They are generally not in a state of mind where they would accept my reasoning. But that does not matter... I know eventually they will agree to my interpretation of the world, as more people will come on board and join the activity.

People have a deep yearning for social proof, I do not.


Somehow, I have been able to make up my own mind and persevere in the direction I see fit.

Now, I do not care what you think about me.

For some ... I am a genius......., for some... I am an egomaniac, retarded, arrogant, immovable ,indefatigable bastard....But I am none of those.


In my world view, I am simply trying to acquire knowledge and apply knowledge. Fuck everything else.


But lets come back to the original concept of discussion.... You are reading this because you somehow got enchanted with the title... so I should be true to it.

Lets talk about incremental rate of return on relationship.... be it personal or professional....

I have not found many people in the professional zone... whom I could say that my journey with those individual will have incremental rate of return.

People are driven by external sources and the closer they get to the perceived limits of their dream... they stop the journey..... then all the fun evaporates and misery becomes the default status.

There are only a few individuals who were in that category where people were working for a bigger reason than satisfying their animal instincts.

But I want to create a place or a group of people who understand this thing in their bones and practice it in everything they do.


Personal level....

I have not found any bandi in my life who understood this before me telling this simple thing to her.
It would be an epiphany, if I  would ever find such a bandi... But I am optimistic.


I would request , all the girls who are reading this... be truthful to yourself and do not lie to me about the status of your realization... anyhow I will find the core of your existence and If you would have lied to me then it would be counter productive for our relationship.

I do not know how valuable this concept would be .... but I want to ask myself this thing about everything that I do.....

Every small detail, every small thing that I could imagine should pass this simple test....

Does it have incremental rate of return?

If I have kept on searching ... I have found the answers .... most of the time.

Search is the reward, journey is the process, end is just an outcome.

keep smiling

I was right.... in the end....... you are your work.

( I am a bit sleepy..... )

When I was small, I wanted to know what it is like to be a grow up. I had all that curiosity about being an independent adult.

But as it turned out that these grown up people were nothing more than those small children stretched in time.

It turned out that society does not allow you to learn new things after a few years in life.And I firmly believe that if a person is not experimenting or learning in his/her life then he/she is a breathing dead blob of hydrocabons and some other equally shitty substances.

You have to find or make an activity that will be in line with the fundamentals of your existence.
For most people this activity is called work. Something by which you will be known/understood/remembered/have mark in the world.

So, this is who you are. In the long run, you are your work. No matter how painful the journey is, the onus of finding your love in life is upon you.

The day you will find it, you will never have to work again.

Find your love....


Keep practicing...