every person has some strong points and some weak.....you just have to change the context and you will solve the problem

take vaishali for example....... she is totally blank as far as worldly experience is considered.
I could crib about it....or I could choose to see this in a new light where I could ask her t do all those mundane task that I would not want myself to do. She would be more than happy to do it because it will be totally new experience and learning opportunity for her. This is why the previous line.

Never listen to anyone ....try to make up your own mind about things....don't let others tell you what is right and what is wrong.... go experiment ....you will find the truth.