IF you define a goal, an end to your current journey then eventually you will go beyond it.
Your goal could be Rs 10000 to a Lamborghini to a fucking trillion dollars.... does not matter. The super computer placed at the top of your body needs a definite point to target. Every time you will fail in achieving that target, your neurons will make more connection- something that we call learning.
Let me give a model,
Every time you fail, you brain is helpless but to interpret that situation as survival threat. It will produce reaction in you brain that will help in storing this bitter experience. But if you zoom it a little, as I see it- These emotional experience helped us in our survival in the evolutionary history of mankind. Emotion is a reaction built by nature for us to store the information is our brain.
Every new failure feels like a survival threat, in prehistoric time it must have been correct- if you stop while an animal is chasing your back...... there is no failure- there is end of your existence- Death (instant death to be precise).
So, no wonder we feel shit after every failure.
But there is a silver lining to the story- if you understand it on a meta level that heavy emotional experience is just our mind trying to create a lasting memory and nothing else, you could hack your brain into making it fail again and again and again. Eventually, it will become habitual to the shit you are trying to do and you would become comfortable at failing on it- The more number of times you repeat it and refine it, the more you brain will become habitual( which it loves,it wants you to do known things, it wants to protect you and known things are generally safe) and eventually your connection will become so dense that it would become an almost intuitive reaction and on that day you would have finally- learnt it and mastered it.
This is just a model that could be useful in making yourself do seeming difficult things, in helping you experiment in life.
TO BE CONT....
Keep Smiling
Your goal could be Rs 10000 to a Lamborghini to a fucking trillion dollars.... does not matter. The super computer placed at the top of your body needs a definite point to target. Every time you will fail in achieving that target, your neurons will make more connection- something that we call learning.
Let me give a model,
Every time you fail, you brain is helpless but to interpret that situation as survival threat. It will produce reaction in you brain that will help in storing this bitter experience. But if you zoom it a little, as I see it- These emotional experience helped us in our survival in the evolutionary history of mankind. Emotion is a reaction built by nature for us to store the information is our brain.
Every new failure feels like a survival threat, in prehistoric time it must have been correct- if you stop while an animal is chasing your back...... there is no failure- there is end of your existence- Death (instant death to be precise).
So, no wonder we feel shit after every failure.
But there is a silver lining to the story- if you understand it on a meta level that heavy emotional experience is just our mind trying to create a lasting memory and nothing else, you could hack your brain into making it fail again and again and again. Eventually, it will become habitual to the shit you are trying to do and you would become comfortable at failing on it- The more number of times you repeat it and refine it, the more you brain will become habitual( which it loves,it wants you to do known things, it wants to protect you and known things are generally safe) and eventually your connection will become so dense that it would become an almost intuitive reaction and on that day you would have finally- learnt it and mastered it.
This is just a model that could be useful in making yourself do seeming difficult things, in helping you experiment in life.
TO BE CONT....
Keep Smiling
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